WHAT IS SEX? Sexual intercourse is the penetration of the penis into the vagina. Sexual intercourse is a sexual activity typically involving the insertion and thrusting of the penis into the vagina for sexual pleasure, reproduction, or both is also known as vaginal sex.
Sex:’’ union between a male and a female ‘’…………… ‘’ process a by which
sperms and a female is deposited.
Biblically, The bible itself gives its elegant definition about sex. Mark 10: 8 tells us- and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh.
Sex is more than just a physical act. There is also a deep spiritual aspect to sex. But you probably know that already, don’t you? Or at least you may have had an inkling of it in your soul.
Whenever two bodies engage in sex, their souls are also united. Why would that be? Well….simply put it, God made sex. You and I didn’t create it. If you were only a body and not also a soul, then sex would only be physical. Memo to you: “Your soul is immortal and will never cease to exist, no matter what you do with your body.” we don’t get to dictate to God where the boundaries for sex are to be set. That’s His call, and His alone. “He who created man’s body and soul gets to establish the sexual boundaries of right and wrong.” I am talking about a universal code of conduct that is not based on your strongest sexual desires, but rather, upon God’s authoritative Word. Sex is occurring right now among many people all over the world. When two people engage in sex, their physical bodies are obviously in one specific geographic location. It is a location which is visible to the human eye. On the other hand, their two souls are in a “place” that is invisible to the human eye.
So where is that place that souls go during sex?
While some may view of pleasure and take advantage, believing that they are completed unaffected once they didn’t get into ‘’relationship’’ . but yet still they may notice that their personalities and physical bodies have all sorts of changes they cannot seem to explain.
Actually, there are three places souls can go….and only three. While their bodies are united in a visible geographic location, their souls are united in an invisible place….but a place that is, nevertheless, just as real.
MARRIAGE BED
The first place two souls can go also happens to be the one place God designed for souls to go during sex. The Bible calls this place “the marriage bed.” This is the place where a man and woman who are married go when they have sex. Whether they are in their actual bedroom or not….or perhaps even away on a trip….”the marriage bed” is the place where their souls connect with one another during sex. It is a spiritual union and it is one of the many blessings of marriage. The place where their souls connect with one another during sex. It is a spiritual union and it is one of the many blessings of marriage. And don’t forget that marriage is a union between a man and woman who has or have under goes all the lay down procedures leading to marriage. “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.” (Hebrews 13:4) This is the only way your soul can enjoy “safe sex.” It is the only place God has sanctioned and chosen to bless. The other two places where many souls connect during sex will bring a curse and not a blessing.
THE CHURCH OR THE TEMPLE
The second place, or spiritual location, where many souls engage in sex is in “church.” the temple of the Lord. The temple is not about the physical buildings we have in our various area. The New Testament never uses the word “church” to describe a building. For the past 2000 years, the “church” has been the physical bodies and souls of Christians. “Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit lives in you?” (1 Cor. 3:16) The Bible says, “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore, honour God with your body.” (1 Cor. 6:18-20) There is nothing honourable about committing sexual sin in church.
RIM OF A VOLCANO.
Jesus made it clear that there are only two roads leading into eternity….a narrow road to heaven….and a wide road to hell. (see Matthew 7:13,14) Hell is described by our Lord as a place where “the fire never goes out.” (Mark 9:48) Perhaps it is just like fire on earth….or perhaps it is far worse. Either way, imagine a person who does not know Jesus and is therefore on the road to hell. Picture that person living every day on the rim of a volcano…. walking around it…. hanging out…..only a breath away from entering it forever.
Now imagine that unbeliever having a bed sitting right on the rim of the volcano. Whenever that unbeliever has sex, he or she is as close to falling into the volcano as you can get. This is the third place that two souls can meet to have sex. When two people who do not know Christ engage in sex, this is their “bed” and it is dangling on the rim of the volcano. If they only knew that their sexual act could be their final act before dying and entering hell for eternity.
“Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes being burned? Can a man walk on hot coals without his feet being scorched? So is he who sleeps with another man’s wife; no one who touches her will go unpunished.” (Proverbs 6:27-29) even married couples who are unbelievers are on the rim of the volcano during sex. You may say, “But they are married. I thought that is what God wanted. They are not sinning by having sex in marriage, right?” Well….in their case, there is a bigger sin being committed. It trumps their sexual relationship in marriage. It is the sin of unbelief. It is the one sin that keeps a person’s soul living on the rim of a volcano, so to speak. Without Christ in your life, even sex in marriage cannot save your soul or the soul of your spouse. Jesus is the only One who can rescue us from our sin and bring us to heaven.
PLACES THAT SOULS CAN HAVE SEX
There are the three places that souls can have sex. The first one is good, holy, and God-pleasing….it is the marriage bed….and it is God’s plan. The second one is scandalous…. where a believer engages in sex outside of marriage, and therefore, is committing sexual sin in God’s church. And thirdly, many souls engage in sex on the rim of a volcano due to their unbelief in Christ as their Saviour.
God provides “spiritual protection” for anyone who truly wants to engage in “safe sex.” , don’t just jump into bed with someone until you are aware of where your soul will be at during your sexual experience. You don’t have to sacrifice your soul for eternity upon the altar of sexual satisfaction. Surrender your sexual desires to Christ….as well as your entire heart….and believe that He died for all of your sins on the cross….and you will escape the fire of hell and be saved to live in the paradise of heaven.
“Safe sex” in “the marriage bed” keeps you from swerving off the narrow road….and that is the only safe road into eternity. The Lord takes this sex stuff so seriously because He takes our bodies so seriously. That is why St. Paul urged believers “to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God – this is your spiritual act of worship.” (Romans 12:1)
That brings everything full circle. Even many unbelievers, if they were honest, would admit that they are trying to find a spiritual high through sex and not only physical pleasure. Do you know why they feel that way? Because God designed our bodies to be used to His glory as a spiritual act of worship. The body and soul are not really two separate entities, but are intertwined with one another into this one person God calls “you.”
The greatest thing that destroy one’s destiny is Sex, Joseph destiny came to past because he refused to give himself to Potiphar’s wife. Until you refused Potiphar’s sex there is no great testimony for destiny.
References
- Retrieved from http://Www.christianpost.com on the 4th of April, 2020
- Retrieved from http://Www.mnialive.com on the 4th of April, 2020
- Dan Delzell
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